SCC: Hi Josh, please tell us a little about yourself.
Josh: My name is Josh Duquette. I’m 31 years old. I live in a Massachusetts with my three daughters, my girlfriend and her daughter. I work in the North Attleboro public school systems as a special education paraprofessional. I’ve been working at this job for about two years now. I recently started working as a one-to-one tutor for children with moderate to severe needs.
SCC: Tell us about your time in the military.
Josh: I made the decision to enlist in the force. My first day was 24, August, 2009, right out of high school. I wanted to serve in the air force to set myself up for success in the future with college education, military benefits for my future children, as well as to serve my country like my brother did. I served from 2009 to Christmas Eve, 2013. During that time I worked as a part of Air Force Space Command out of Colorado Springs, Colorado, and I deployed as part of the 386 expeditionary communication squadron in Ali Al Salem Kuwait.
Looking back on my time in the military, I would say that my service definitely gave me the social and professional skills to quickly adapt to a civilian environment in terms of being prepared, being flexible, hardworking, and a personality that a lot of people and students would be willing to work with.
I’m incredibly proud of my time in the service. It definitely transformed my life and I would not be who I am today without my time. After I left military service, I enrolled at Mass Bay Community College, and then I continued on to UMass Boston and I got my Bachelor’s degree in Philosophy because I knew that I wanted to take the critical thinking and analytic skills from my military service and apply it into more of a scholarly life skill field versus being stuck in academia. And following my time at UMass Boston, I went onto Brandeis University and I received my Masters and that’s how I got into education.
SCC: What compels you to be an educator?
Josh: What compels me to be an educator is that it’s an extension of my service. During my military service, I served the country in a general sense, but now I’m able to give back to the community and the people that I signed up to defend. I’m making an impact now in my home country, raising a generation, that’s going to be better than the one that I’m a part of.
I absolutely love my job. I feel like on most days the kids are helping me more than I’m helping them. I get to be the middle school educator adult that I wish I had growing up. I get to be the person who can help children integrate with each other and set them up for success in their future. Whether that be a trade school, college, future military service, I’m able to support these kids in a small group setting and get that feedback from them. Like, you know, thank you Mr. Duquette, for helping me. Whether that be on a test or just being somebody to talk to because they’re having a rough day at home with their siblings, with their support circle at home.
It’s, it’s already, making more of an impact than my military service did. It’s I’m helping to foster a, an entire generation of youth that will hopefully, and probably will go on to do better things than I did.
SCC: Tell us about what led to you to connect with Second Chance Cars?
Josh: In 2015, I was in a car accident due to my service connected disability. My legs went numb behind the wheel. My foot got pinned to the accelerator and I ended up hitting a truck. After I was brought to the ER, the officer on the scene revoked my license due to a medical threat, and it took five years to get that decision reversed. It took a lot of support from the Attleboro VSO, the Providence VA Medical Center, which is a local service member support organization. And then I recently got my license back, but then the issue became, I need a safe, reliable vehicle, not only for myself, but also for my family. My three kids have never been able to take a car ride with their dad. They’ve never been able to have me bring them to their extracurriculars or even something as small as just going to the grocery store.
That was a huge burden on them. But for me, it was very, very demoralizing, sometimes humiliating. I felt like that I was being unfairly punished and that I wasn’t going to be able to meet the obligations that I have as a father and as a disabled veteran just trying to get a job and make an impact on his community.
SCC: What was the experience of getting approved for a car like?
Josh: When I saw the Mitsubishi for the first time, it, it was really, really hard to just let myself accept it that after so long, not having a car, not being able to drive, that I could finally be a family man and a working man, a real man, essentially. I was just overcome with joy and especially seeing how great it was taken care of and hearing all of the work that they did on the vehicle, basically making it run like a brand new car. I was just overwhelmed. It was life changing.
It can fit my kids in and my girlfriend and we can go for drives and I can do all of the things that they’ve been missing out on for the past five years. I can take them to zoos and parks and out to dinner and get ice cream and the aquarium, the mall, all of these things that a lot of people take for granted. Having a safe, reliable vehicle improved their quality of life and outlook on life so much and the quality of the time they get to spend with their dad now is much, much higher. I will be eternally grateful for that because now I can feel like a real dad.
It’s just been a tremendous amount of shame and self-loathing that evaporated within this span of like a week from the time that I was in contact with Dan to the time that he gave me the keys for this Mitsubishi. Five, six years of stress and depression gone in an instant. I can’t even put into words how mind blowing that felt for such a seemingly simple thing for so many people, just a car that I can drive to work.
SCC: What’s next for you?
Josh: Now that I have this vehicle, all of these opportunities have opened up for me. I’m able to take on more hours, I’m able to work a summer position, I’m able to take on this additional tutoring opportunity for students that have severe needs and require that flexible schedule and immediate access to a paraprofessional. I can do those things now. So I’m helping way more people than just myself and my family.
SCC: What would you say to someone considering donating a car to Second Chance Cars?
Josh: If I was to meet somebody who considered donating their car to Second Chance Cars, I would absolutely encourage them. I’d beg them to do it, honestly. I would love for another veteran, another person, family community, to be able to benefit in the same way that I did.